June 14, 2012
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How to Fly Away Home
Originally posted April 26, 2012.
Home.
A place of security and rest. Family gatherings, good food, games, security, rest, and warm showers. The place we long for when we’ve worked hard or had an upsetting day of events. It is where we are shielded from the terrors and horrors of the outside world.
No matter what anyone might tell you, there is truly only one place you call home. Not the next-door neighbor’s house. Not grandma’s house (although, depending on grandma’s house, that might be a cozy place to visit). And certainly not some igloo in the North. No other house will do but the one that you call home.
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While working at the mall, cleaning the carpets and floor mats, a swift flying object caught my eye. A bird had somehow managed to find its way inside. Back and forth it swooped from skylight ledge, to skylight ledge, to a window ledge just above the mall doors, and back across the mall to yet another skylight ledge. Anywhere it could see bright sunlight and the open sky. Anything that looked like freedom. He was trying to find home.
This was two or three days ago. Today, on my way into work, I walked through one of the department stores that connects directly to the mall and saw the same type of bird…perhaps even the same one. A bird trapped in a world it does not belong to and likely scared and frantic. (He flew right to the shoe department, so maybe he was tired of flying.)
In the middle of the mall is a giant skylight dome, as well. Skylights adorn the ceiling from one end to the other. However, there are only three main entrances (not counting service way exit doors). Between the skylights and the doors, there is only one real way for that poor bird to find true freedom. Even the giant skydome, with all its vastness (from a bird’s point of view), will not be enough for the bird to truly be where it longs to be.
In this world, I think we can relate to that bird more than many of us will realize.
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I’m sure we’ve all seen pictures like the one here. Ones that say that one religion is as good as the next. That they all preach the same things. That we’re all essentially good or that evil and good can’t exist without the other. That ultimately we all serve the same god and one’s Nirvana is another’s Heaven.
It sure sounds like a nice thought about our different beliefs, but if you tried telling that bird that one skylight is the same as the next skylight or the mall entrance doors, the bird would peck at you in pure frustration. (That bird was already fraught with anxiety.) For if the skylights and the doors were all one and the same, why wasn’t the bird able to escape to the wild blue yonder as he flew back and forth to each one? Obviously, there’s a major difference.
The fact is that while we are all supposedly looking for the Home our hearts are longing for, the freedom from the pains and fears of this world, like that bird in the skylights aching for the sky we are still hopelessly trapped with some vague view of true Paradise. The reason is because most of us do not know (yet) that there is only one way to freedom: Jesus Christ. Just as there is only one mall entrance (yes, I said there were three, but for the sake of argument and given the section of the mall the bird was in, there is only one), yet many skylights.
It’s quite clear that many of the religions today share many aspects. Most have some deity or many deities they worship. Many have a moral code based on or woven into they’re beliefs. Many have some goal of “a higher state of being” or a destination beyond this (physical) world. However, it doesn’t take an examination with a microscopic lens to figure out that the content of these similar aspects are actually quite different. Christianity has one God-head who presents Himself as three persons. Islam is strictly one god, Allah. Many other religions have multiple gods. Of course, the list of differences goes on and on. It’s actually very naive to say that all religions lead to the same place or ultimately serve the same God. Whether you believe in Christianity’s God or Islam or Hinduism…each religion’s idea of who the ultimate deities are do not match up. Each religion has a different idea of how women should be treated, or how one is deemed “good enough”. Some religions don’t have a spiritual aspect at all.
Each skylight is certainly not the same. So how does one figure out how to get out free? How does one fly away home?
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It’s not an easy thing to figure out what makes one religion better than the other, or why one ought to be considered over the others. How does one even determine what is really true when so many of them make such seemingly outrageous claims?
No, it’s not an easy thing to figure out, and the answer to that is best explored for another time, at least in regards to the specific claims each one makes.
The bird, though, “examined” all the skylights, and he often flew to the window ledge just above the doors. It might have taken a lot more searching, but eventually he would have found the doors to freedom. This is because the only realistic way out was through the doors. For one, it’s physically impossible to phase through solid matter when you, yourself, are physical matter, too. With the doors open, there would have been nothing to restrict the bird’s escape. Despite how clear the skylights were, clearly they were as solid as the bird and do not make for good passage ways.
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I want to take a slight “detour” in the discussion for a moment.
It’s an interesting thing, the notion about humility. God often uses it to show us just how trapped we are. Had the bird “humbled” himself, lowered himself, literally flew lower to the ground, he certainly would have found the way to freedom. When we are are pitted against trials or facing consequences of our poor choices, God employs humbling circumstances in order to bring us out of those situations. It might seem that God is against us, when truly the opposite is true. For humility is a process of strengthening one’s character and opening our eyes to more than we perceived before.
You see, humility requires that we let go of our pride. Pride is often described as thinking of one’s self as greater than he really is or as being put on a pedestal. One such example is the idea that we are in complete control of our lives. We make our choices and only we know what’s best. It’s absolutely true that we are free to make our own choices, but God will humble us – bring us to a low point in our lives through various hardships – in order to help bring us to a wiser understanding. (How much wiser would the bird be if he just knew to fly a bit lower when he was on the window ledge above the doors?)
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So now that I’ve seemed to bounce between a few different topics here, let me bring them together.
Many people obviously hold to the uninformed idea that all religions are essentially the same. As I have lightly illustrated, this simply isn’t so. The problem that arises from holding to this idea is a result of stubbornly, pridefully resisting the need to examine what each religion actually teaches, the effects of those teachings when employed, and the evidence (or lack thereof) to support the claims each makes. For as I’ve already pointed out, it didn’t matter what skylight the bird used, only the one door would lead to true blue skies. What if someone was able to successfully pass the message to the bird that he just needed to fly lower through the doors? What if the bird refused? Because I can tell you that the blue sky was not as easily seen through the doors, yet that didn’t make the doors any less the only true way out.
Like I mentioned, the point here isn’t necessarily to promote Christianity as the only one true religion (I do hold to that, but such a claim is for another discussion). What I want to encourage here is for people to let go of the faulty idea that all religions are equal. That all religions are nothing more than many different paths to the same God. And to show why the stubborn pride of holding to such a false idea (further refusing to examine the differences and see which one holds the right to Absolute Truth) will keep people trapped.
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I mentioned at the start about the human longing for a Home that is not of this world. CS Lewis, in his book, “The Weight of Glory”,
“What more, you may ask, do we want? … We do not want merely to see beauty, though, God knows, even that is bounty enough. We want something else which can hardly be put into words—to be united with the beauty we see, to pass into it, to receive it into ourselves, to bathe in it, to become part of it.
“It was when I was happiest that I longed most…The sweetest thing in all my life has been the longing…to find the place where all the beauty came from.
“At present we are on the outside of the world, the wrong side of the door. We discern the freshness and purity of the morning, but they do not make us fresh and pure. We cannot mingle with the splendours we see. But all the leaves of the New Testament are rustling with the rumour that it will not always be so. Some day, God willing, we shall get in.
“If I find in myself a desire which no experience in the world can satisfy, the most probable explanation is that I was made for another world.”
Lewis, like the bird, recognized that this world is not our true home. Not when we understand that we were made for someplace else. This could not be more true for the Christian. In his children’s fantasy book series, “The Chronicles of Narnia”, Lewis described the world we live in as the Shadowlands. Just as our own shadow is but a crude image of ourselves, so is this world but a crude image of the true glory of the Home we long for. Yay, the very Home many of us do not realize is what we long for. It was not until after all the glorious events in the stories did the Heroes of Narnia find themselves in the True Narnia. Indeed, it was much larger “on the inside” (you’ll have to read the stories to understand what that means). The Narnia they had all previously experienced was but the shadow of the real thing. Just as the sky the bird saw through the skylights was but a crude experience of the open blue sky outside the mall. Indeed, the bird could not actually enjoy that small portion of sky that it could make out through the skylight. He knew he was made for another world, and so he kept searching, not content for the malls “religions”.
In the Bible, in the book of Jeremiah, God banished His people, the Israelites, to either the sword or to Babylonian captivity because of decades of rebellion against Him. They were sinful children who would not obey their Father in Heaven. As you read through the chapters, you get the strong message that God is quite angry with His people and very justified in punishing them. He drives them from the Promised Land, the home he secured for them ages before after they were freed from slavery in Egypt. This, people, was their home! Now, they were to live as slaves in a foreign land, trapped in a world they did not know. Much like the bird, though inside the “splendor” of the construction of the mall, it was in a foreign world and not where he belonged.
Often times, even after describing Israel’s punishment, God would tell the prophet Jeremiah that there was still good news. When Israel’s heart softened and relinquished its sinful pride and once again turned to God with open minds and open hearts, He would bring them back home with joy. Image, if you can, being far from home, longing for the place you felt you belonged. The warm bed, the family table full of good food and love, the bookshelf you read your favorite books by…no longer something you could freely enjoy. Indeed, those feelings were the feelings the Israelites felt. The same feelings the bird in the mall felt. They were trapped, and because none humbled themselves, lowered themselves to serve the Lord, they could not escape.
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It is not until we humble ourselves to the truth of God’s word that we will discover the true freedom and home we long for. It will not be until then that we will even be able to describe those longings, to give it a definition. When we do, however, then we will fly away home.
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As a point of fun (and for my own understanding), going from top-center clockwise, what religions are all the symbols for?
Comments (17)
Well put and nicely said.
@KnightInCROATIANarmor - Thank you, sir!
I always appreciate the recs, too.
If I may prod your mind deeper, what did you find worthwhile as you read my article here?
very interesting post,food for thought.
@Rhindon - You’re more than welcome. I found out long time ago that I like things when they are simple and easy to understand. Your comparison of the eternal life with a bird stuck in a mall was like watching a video. It’s so simple and it tells an amazing story. Reminds me of that verse in New Testament when Jesus said that it will be easier for a camel to go through the eye of the needle. Jesus said that He is the Way, the Truth and the Light and He also said in Matthew 7:13,14 that the way to the Kingdom is narrow and that only a few find it.
I hope this helps
God bless you on this wonderful day
I’m having some trouble with my sense of home, it’s kind of a long story and I am in the middle of writing a post about it. This was a very well written post by the way, I do not consider myself a particularly religious person, but I could read through the entirety and not feel like views are being forced onto me.
@rilthe - Thank you.
I am curious as to what sort of food your mind and soul felt fed with. What came to mind? I deeply appreciate the rec, as well.
@Trueinnerbeauty@lovelyish - I hope you’ll tag me in your post when it’s finished. I’ll do my best to make time to read it.
I’m very glad my tone was well received, too. If you ever happen across any of my other posts, I want to simply say for the sake of understanding that I’m very firm on my beliefs, but not simply because they are what I believe. A belief can be held strongly, but what is believed in can be very wrong, too. Just as 2+2=4, no matter what someone believes, that’s the truth of the matter. So I’ll try to make my arguments based on evidence and logic, but never without gentleness and compassion in my tone.
If you are in the middle of your own spiritual journey, then I’m glad to be of help here. If you like, you’re very welcome to drop me a message and ask me any questions you might have. I’ll do my best to give you straight answers and tell you when I don’t know something.
@KnightInCROATIANarmor - I hear ya. I like analogies, too. I do tend to “think deep”, and I feel if I can get a complex concept summed up into a concise and/or easy illustration, then hopefully I’ve done well to convey a message that’s applicable to the person. (This is the sort of feedback I’m definitely looking for with my writing. I also want to know more about how what I wrote makes an impact on the reader’s life. I love writing, but I write also for the benefit of others.)
@Rhindon - the post is up on my weblog, I’m still learning how to tag and do other things in posts
It isn’t the most coherent post, but I tried to say what I wanted to and make some sense
@Rhindon - Nothing wrong with being deep
knowledge my friend
@rilthe - Describe this knowledge you have acquired.
“The fact is that while we are all supposedly looking for the Home our hearts are longing for, the freedom from the pains and fears of this world, like that bird in the skylights aching for the sky we are still hopelessly trapped with some vague view of true Paradise. The reason is because most of us do not know (yet) that there is only one way to freedom: Jesus Christ. Just as there is only one mall entrance (yes, I said there were three, but for the sake of argument and given the section of the mall the bird was in, there is only one), yet many skylights.”
Here is where I get lost…what if I truly honestly don’t long for freedom from the fears and pain of this world? I find myself content with my life in general and I’m not afraid of being dead tonight or tomorrow…I have no fear of what’s next. I honestly feel like life ends completely at death and u decompose and I am okay with that. Im not sure what u mean by the fear and pains of the world? What are ppl fearing and what is so painful?
@Iam_so_fat - A good question.
I thing part of that rests in the fact that human kind has rejected the reality of God because they know that, by acknowledging Him, they have to face a very frightful reality: That death is not the mere end of our existence, but complete and utter separation from any and all comforts of life…including the joy of being with God. (I will try to explain further if that’s still confusing, but I want to start off brief since I have a tendency to be quite long-winded.)
The fear and pains of the world include what I just explained, and more. It is no easy thing to summarize. Things like fear of being rejected, fear of failure. The shame of knowing we have, indeed, failed. Guilt for things that have no easy solution – things we cannot hope to reverse. Fear and shame that we have done the “unthinkable”. Fear that we have no worth. Fear that we’ll never be “good enough” (keep that one in mind for later…it strikes deeper than most people realize). The pain of having been abused, and fear of not knowing who we can trust. Ooooh, the list is endless as it is varied.
I am not sure how to better answer your question, but I suppose a good way to go would be to ask you a question in return…*chuckles*
What if I told you that there was a world better than the one you know now? Even if your world is good and pain-free, what would you think?
@Iam_so_fat - I should clarify… Death doesn’t mean, in any way, that we’ll simply cease to be. We’ll keep on living, particularly in a spiritual context. But that life will be like a robot (not that WE are robots) without a power source. It’s unplugged and dying. Unless it plugs into an electrical provider, it’ll still exist, but it’ll be “dead”. It’ll still be aware of its condition and yet completely unable to do anything further. That’s not a PERFECT analogy, but hopefully it clears up my meaning.
“But our citizenship is in heaven” (part of Philippians 3:20) is the verse that stuck out the most to me today in church. It explains why I feel no true sense of belonging to this world, to earth. I can have the comfort of the familiar, of family, of certain houses, nature, hugs- but it’s not my ultimate home. But in the meantime we are to devote our lives to God and live as examples of who He truly is in the hopes that we do bring Him glory, that we impact others to move closer to God instead of farther away. Even if someone never accepts Jesus Christ into their hearts in this temporary physical life, my hope is that they will when they face God for judgement. I hope God will choose to have mercy on them even after the body’s death. My ultimate hope is that everyone reaches Heaven, that we will all unite in awe and love for God, that we will all get to live with our amazing God for eternity. It’s not up to us to decide where anyone goes, to even think we know where someone will go, that is not for us to judge. It is not up to us to condemn someone to Hell for whatever reason. The judging is up to God. I would never wish Hell upon anyone, anyone at all. I wish Satan would turn from his ways but I’m sure he enjoys what he does, unfortunately. Light beats darkness every time. To know that such a place as Hell exists, is terrifying. But to have our God be so loving and filled with grace, so strong, someone who follows through with His promises is a giant relief. My thoughts can go in a bunch of directions, so I’ll just wrap it up in saying.. Thank you for writing this post. I think a lot of us are like that bird, desperately struggling to find our way to freedom. We can settle for the window seat or we can go out there and be a part of what is so wonderful.
@dreamerbreeze4 - I’m especially glad you took the time to read my post…thank you.
I do have a few thoughts for you to consider, however, based on something you said.
“I hope God will choose to have mercy on them even after the body’s death.”
Unfortunately, while God’s mercy and grace is abundant and never in short supply, there is a point at which there will be no second chances. Do you recall Jesus’ parable of the rich man and Lazarus? In that story, Jesus explained that upon (physical) death, there are no second chances. That is when judgment will be given. Judgment assumes that the case has already been examined. If we were to take one’s entire life as a singular instance, would that instance prove one innocent or guilty? Would that one instance show that the person in question had Jesus or not? It’s not simply a matter of God being gracious or not, it’s about each person taking responsibility for their guilt and accepting that they cannot justify themselves alone – they need Christ. But upon death – the same sort of death Jesus died on the Cross, then there are no more chances. A person can choose to die with Christ in THIS life, or die under their own self-justification.
Suppose I tried to personally save that bird. If it accepted my offer of salvation, it would surely know freedom. But if it rejects me, then it would certainly be trapped forever (although I haven’t seen that bird in weeks, so I’m sure it really did find its way home). There will come a point when that bird WILL die. If that bird stood before God like humans will, what could that bird say? “Let me in, please, Lord? Let me fly in the air again!”
God could only say, “The skies of Heaven are for those who accepted my gift of Salvation through my Son [I'm not referring to me, of course]. You chose to try to find your own way out and instead died in the mall.”
This may sound cruel to some, but Salvation is as much a free gift from God as it is our receiving that free gift willingly.
@Rhindon - Aw, you’re welcome and thank you for taking the time to share further truths with me.
It makes sense that those who have Jesus in their life on earth, have life. Those who don’t, have death. Because of this, we are to do our best in bringing people to Christ (and also encourage them in their walk with Christ). Not in an aggressive, forceful way. Something like this can not be forced. But we can do our best in developing the character of Christ within us, to lead by example, allow our life to be a testimony to what God is constantly doing in our lives, to love everyone. I hope I can make God smile not only day to day, but on Judgment Day as well. No matter what, God is going to do what He wants to do. It is His kingdom. He chooses who to welcome and who to banish. It is beyond our knowledge to know who will go where, that is for God to decide. We are not to judge where someone will go. We can think someone is going to Hell because they didn’t have Jesus in their life, but we can’t truly read into what is going on in that person’s heart or what God will do with him/her. We can do our part and God will take care of the rest.
Thank you so much for such a great blog.
Keith W.